Are you turning 40 ?! Congratulations you have overcome several obstacles in this life to get to this age; the age of wisdom. but perhaps you still need to stop few things to reach a perfect level.
You should stop drinking like you were in your 20s and 30s. if you still drinking like the old days you have to think twice it’s likely you are an alcoholic and sooner you will get huge health issue if you didn’t stop that.
2.blaming others for your bad situation
We all make mistakes but blaming others for your mistakes complicates the problem and takes you away from finding a solution and the only result you will get is loosing your friends an maybe your family. By accepting your mistakes, you give yourself a chance to find the solution and learning from them.
3.living in the past
If you’re living in the past, you’re living somewhere that doesn’t exist you can’t do anything about it, some people still thinking about high school or college wishing they had done this or that. If there are changes you’d like to make in life, it’s best to do it now, your 40s are a time to focus on what is and what still can be.
4.Time to be yourself
Do not imitate others people are always seeking for something new, i believe that everyone had some star quality that could make them successful. Be original, be yourself. Admiring your heroes is all right as long as you don't imitate them blindly.
5.Apologizing for Who You Are
don't Worry about what other people think of you, Be proud - Be kind - Be happy with who you are so you can spread, instead of not accepting yourself and spending all your time tearing down others because of your own pain or insecurities.
6.Running Away From Debt
Struggling with debt is one of life's most stressful experiences.do you want to live all your life like that ?The situation will only get worse unless you take positive steps and stop delaying the debt.